Handling a Break Up Without Looking Desperate

Breaking up is the beginning of new transition in your life. It's easy to look at an experience in a negative way, but we'd like to challenge you to view your separation as a new beginning, a real chance for finding your Mr. or Ms. Right.

Handling a Break Up Without Looking DesperateYour whole world can suddenly seem turned upside down when you learn the sad reality that the love you thought was forever is now OVER. It's like unexpectedly being doused with an icy cold bucket of water. You're instantly forced to look at everything differently and realize your day to day life will no longer include the one you love. However, the key to holding onto any type of future relationship with this person is keeping your dignity and grace during your time of discomfort and pain.

You may not be thinking about it now, but a great friendship could still develop out of this relationship. You cared for them enough to enter into a romantic relationship, so it stands to reason they just might make a great friend in the future. The way you react or act during this period will determine the likelihood of this.

If in fact, you are going through a break up right now, keep in mind these tips for keeping a level head.

1. Don't initiate contact for at least two weeks. If they call you, keep the conversation short and do NOT rehash what went wrong.

2. If you feel you must say something to them; go buy a journal and write down everything you are feeling and want to say. Even go so far as to address the letter to them, however, do NOT mail it. This is just a vessel for getting your thoughts out. Trust me; you'll be glad you kept your thoughts to yourself someday!

3. Make sure to express your gratitude about having the opportunity to share so many pleasant memories with them. Wish them well with whatever future may be in store for them.

4. Do not spend hours upon hours deliberating by yourself or with friends about what could have gone wrong. It isn't healthy to dwell on the past or the negative. focus on doing creative or action-oriented things to keep your mind busy.

5. As soon as you are able to start shifting your focus to your new life. You've just been given a new opportunity to start on a new path. What will it be? Take this time to do something you've always wanted, but just didn't get to while you were with your ex.

6. Accept responsibility that you contributed to the demise of the relationship, however, that it was also a two-way street. There's no need to dwell on what each person "did" or "did not" do. Assess for yourself what relationship areas you could probably address for future relationships and make a commitment to do something about it.

7. If your ex wants to give the relationship another chance, don't say yes immediately. Take some time to really gauge whether the original problems have been handled. If they haven't, it will only be a matter of time before you're going through all of this again.

8. If your ex is already seeing someone new, try your best to avoid seeing them together. Take comfort in the knowledge that if they were interested enough to date someone else, they were never your Mr. or Ms. Right! That means your perfect someone is still out there waiting for you!!!

Though U & I have said Goodbye

My heart can let you go
completely and forever.
So though we have parted
I'll keep our memories intact
I'll treasures our happy times together
I'll always think of you
as someone who touched
my life tenderness and my heart with love

Wherever you go in this world,
remember that i wish you well
and hope you're happy
remember that i will be here,
holding on to all that we
have shared together in the spirit of friendship and love.

there will always be a place in my heart for you

To Someone

te!!! ano ni??? sa blogspot nlng ta epressanay sang aton mga himumun-ot??? ay im telling you it wont work...hay!!! people could always find a way to prove what your talking about especially if it is not true. if she had an evidence will sorry to tell you guys, even me ma burn out man ko... as what tonette said "before you play a game know the rules first" getz???
as we started this blog a lot of commets, stories, blind items posted on this site. everybody wants to know who's that person is. hehehehehe....
well if you want WAR...not ME.... but it seems that a lot people started this game well i guess someone will finished it!!!! and who's that person is???? hehhehehee syempre SECRET!!!
i know you know who you are!!! i'm telling you your putting yourself in a danger zone!!!!
Well God Bless nlng sa imo.....hehehehe take care pa gili...

D*E*A*R G*M*C*I

People has his own point of view in life. We can't blame them on how they treat you. whether your trying to be good or bad for them your still a bad person. if they dont like you, you have to accept it. all you need to do is to be true to your self!!! STOP PRETENDING!!! if you commit a mistakes, humble down and accept it. learn from your mistakes as the saying goes...don't do it again and again cause its so annoying...
always remember if you're "maldita" mas may traidora pa sa imo!!!
donot accuse people if you have no evidence, always put this in the top of your Blog "and Ebedensya" then proceed....
I know all of us wants to be a friend of everybody. "Smile" to that person, somehow it could help.... hehehehehe effective na xa....if you hate that person...hes some advice for you..."kwa ka kotsilyo, bun-a dayon"
Donot do things to please a person, do it because you want it or it came from the buttom of your heart... you will know the character of a person if your good enough to analyze his attitude. BaW!!! (panilagnilag lng gamay ah)always remember first empressions Last.....

"what every kiss means"

*Kiss on the stomach = "Im ready"
~Kiss on the Forehead ="I hope we're together forever"
~Kiss on the Ear = "Your my everything"
~Kiss on the Cheek = "We're friends"
~Kiss on the Hand = "I adore you"
~Kiss on the Neck = "we belong together"
~Kiss on the Shoulder = "I want you"
~Kiss on the Lips = I like you"

What the gesture means...
~Holding Hands = "we definitely like each other"
~Slap on the Butt = "That's mine"
~Holding on tight = "i don't want to let go"
~Looking into each other's Eyes = "i just plain like you"
~Playing with Hair = "Tell me you love me"
~Arms around the Waist = "I like you too much to let go"
~Laughing while Kissing = "I am completely comfortable with you"

--Advice--
Dont ask for a kiss, take one.
If you were thinking about someone while reading this,
you're definitely in Love.

I LOVE YOU

I Love You Just three little words

don't seem like enough

for someone whose smile

still brightens my day,

whose touch can make me forget

the rest of the world.They don't seem like enough

for someone who's always been there

to celebrate with mewhen everything goes my way

and to hold my handwhen my whole world

seems to fall apart.

But even though "I Love You"

can't express the depth

of my feelings for you.

I hope you know what's in my heart.

Because loving you

means more to me

than anything in the world

and it always will.